Growing up in Hawaii, at least most of us of a certain age are just more tolerant of other Peoples ways. We knew the way the Filipinos or Chinese or Japanese or the Pacific Islanders celebrated or mourned & worshiped (there were a few other races in the Frey too. We said, it’s not our way, but it’s fine. They can go do it their way. We all came back together after and carried on. If they wanted to talk about it, cool, if not, cool.